Yeah -- I think I was just reciting what I hear folks say a lot. Basically its IPC and a stable interface for clients that is the core of the concern. Thats really what the takeaway is.
[1] https://www.freedesktop.org/software/systemd/man/org.freedes...
systemctl --host=whatever.abc status apache2
It uses ssh and UNIX domain socket forwarding behind the scenes. There's a writeup of how to do this with minimal privs here:https://sleeplessbeastie.eu/2021/03/03/how-to-manage-systemd...
If you want to speak the protocol without the systemctl program then you can do the same trick. Use an SSH library, connect to the dbus socket and connect to systemd. You do need a dbus library though. They are less common than HTTP stacks.
libsystemd includes a d-bus library for exactly this reason.