Patagonia here is the exception, that's why we're all here talking about it!
I didn't want to give my bit of power to my health insurer, but guess what, I have to have healthcare to live and there's effectively one local hospital I can choose.
I didn't want to give my ~~~bit~~~ hefty chunk of power to the company that gatekeeps the patent on insulin, but I really didn't have much choice on that one.
I didn't want to give my bit of power to the telecom conglomerate, but did I have a choice? I need to be online to participate in today's society.
I didn't want to give my bit of power to Google, but... uhh actually I didn't give it to them, they stole it by spying on me.
The reality is that concentrations of power that are inherent to our system of free exchange inevitably congeal into something that looks a lot less free. All of these examples (and there are so many, most of our economy is like this!) don't really represent individual value functions, because when power gets concentrated enough, it becomes possible to take choice away.