You are not the gatekeeper of what is and is not "misogyny".
Leave women alone? Are women somehow ordained with a shield against any criticism? No one can ever criticize a woman-- following that logic... women are always correct?
That sounds authoritarian to me.
Definition of authoritarian
1 : of, relating to, or favoring blind submission to authority 2 : of, relating to, or favoring a concentration of power in a leader or an elite not constitutionally responsible to the people an authoritarian regime.
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The logic in: criticism != hatred is quite sound.
a definition of criticism: the expression of disapproval of someone or something based on perceived faults or mistakes.
a definition of critique: a detailed analysis and assessment of something
a definition of hatred: intense dislike or ill will
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TLDR: disapproval does not equal intense dislike
Just curious-- do you mean that in absolute terms?
For example: Can a teacher/parent/manager scrutinize or judge a student/child/employee? Certainly this is expected virtually all cultures.
Or, if you hire someone to do work on your house, or to build a car, train, or airplane, let's say. You cannot scrutinize their work?
There are entire industries & occupations devoted to this very practice-- Inspections.
So, I very much disagree. I think observable premises in reality demonstrate a different reality from what you claim.