I don't think this is quite fair. Certainly there's a great deal that comes down to the hand you're dealt, but over the course of your life you can move a great distance by your own effort, own decisions, and own attitude.
I know you think you are saying something different but to me you just sound like a blind guy on a mountain.
I'm not trying to convince people to give up, just don't kill yourself because you are not on top of a mountain, it had very little to do with you.