You say "special moderation treatment", as if it is something sinister. Have you considered that it may just be the fact that she was so broadly loved, that this happens naturally?
It's quite possible to respect the person who happens to be a monarch and being against the institution of monarchy.
If you're not suppse to question monarchy when a ruling monarch dies, then when is it appropriate?
It is pretty obvious that she is regarded positively by the majority here. Are you under the impression that I think otherwise?