Thanks to Marten Seemann for maintaining the quic-go library we use. (I still haven't heard whether Go will add HTTP/3 to the standard library.)
Caddy 2.6 should be the first stable release of a general-purpose server to support and enable standardized HTTP/3 by default. HTTP versions can be toggled on or off. (Meaning you can serve only HTTP/3 exclusively if you're hard-core.)
PS. Caddy 2.6 will be our biggest release since 2.0. My draft release notes are about 23 KB. We're looking at huge performance improvements and powerful new features like events, virtual file systems, HTTP 103 Early Hints, and a lot of other enhancements I'm excited to show off on behalf of our collaborators!