‘Why Am I Not Rich and Famous?’ The Delusion of Our Times
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>> Person A becomes Warren Buffett, once the richest man on earth, who experienced one of the biggest booms in value stocks when he was young. Person B loses half of their money because value stocks are out of favor in the 2010s
Buffet started when he was 10, not 15. His net worth is 97.8 billion dollars, 97.5 billion or so of that was earned after he was 50 years old. His success or failure was not due to whether stocks were in or out of favor in his first 5 years of investing.
If you want to be extremely rich, set aside the next 82 years of your life to do nothing but work on that, and you should have a pretty high rate of success.
To think he started off with a paltry $300 million. How much avocado toast do I need to not eat to get there?
That's ~$20k in today's dollars in a few months while still in high school.
>> At 15, Warren made more than $175 monthly delivering Washington Post newspapers
~$3k a month in today's dollars.
It reminds me of how people shit on today's college students without realizing how much college costs have risen. I get the initial "kids these days" reaction, but holy moly, fellow olds, please use Google to update your priors a bit.
There was a time when you could just work a minimum wage part time over the summer and it would pay for college the rest of the year.
Now, you can work minimum wage full time year-round and if you're lucky, you MIGHT cover tuition at a community college if you're still living with your parents and they don't charge rent.
Average community college tuition cost[0]: $3,400/yr.
$3400/yr is $70/week in order to pay your tuition without a loan. Your argument is only lucky people making minimum wage for 40 hours/week, who have their rent paid for, can save $70/week?
[0] https://educationdata.org/average-cost-of-community-college
Setting aside quickly Googled statistics and the risks of using averages to understand individual situations, plus the wide state-by-state variation in support to community college, let's just take the minimum wage and your $70/week number. Let's also set aside how it's quite hard to get 40 hours per week these days in a lot of jobs because of corporate schedule fuckery that was much less severe when I was punching a McDonald's clock.
That's circa 10 hours per week of pay or 25% of their time. Is that number a lot? I would say yes. I don't know many people who can save 25% of their gross pay. If that's you, congrats.
We admit they're in the 0th percentile of earners, but then pretend like their expenses should be the median or mean expenses.
Why would somebody earning essentially the zeroth percentile wages be paying for 50th percentile car ownership?
The other common example is how minimum wage earners can't afford an average 2br rental in any state.
If minimum wage earners are paying for the 50th percentile apartments, who exactly is living in 30th percentile apartments?
Nobody was "lucky" to have a paper delivery route.
He sold gum, he sold Coke bottles, he sold magazines, he worked in a grocery store, he delivered newspapers, he sold golf balls, he sold stamps, he detailed cars, he invested in stock, he invested in land, he went to business school, he worked as an investment salesman, he worked as a stock analyst, he worked as a general partner, then chairman, then CEO at a company.
The lucky opportunity was 82 years to compound returns.
The question is why he wouldn't quit at 50 with a few hundred million and live off of the money instead of spending the next 42 years making more money which he will then give away to someone else to decide what to do with after he dies.
See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Power:_A_New_Social_Analysis
In 1987 I was making about 25/hour doing programming as a senior in high school.
There are always opportunities and those opportunities are not the same in every era.
Kids today are making 100K being influencers opening toys on youtube
Kids today are making 100K playing online poker
Kids today are making $$ writing apps
Kids today are making $$ selling pot
The point is not paper delivery, the point is there is a mindset. I will never be a billionaire because I will stop trying to make money once I have "enough"
This is not 3k a month. This is less than 1/3 of that.
Also maybe nothing.
Also, the 15 year old is going to wait 82 years, happily becoming a billionaire or whatever at 97 years young?
Newspapers then cost roughly 5 cents apiece, and in Omaha a route with 100 doors would take 90 minutes. Your monthly gross sales for a seven day route of that size would be $150, and the vast of that would go to purchase papers. You’d probably net $25, and then get $15 in tips.
That’s about the same amount I made on my route in the late 1970s when adjusted for inflation.
"Young Warren attended the DC public school Alice Deal Junior High and he graduated from Woodrow Wilson High School.
Buffett says delivering papers at age 14 instilled the importance of hard work and reliability.
Wartime Washington was short of adult men and for that reason, says Buffett, he was able to get multiple paper routes at the Westchester Apartments, a five-building complex that was home to the city’s elite.
“I also learned,” he says, “that if you did a good job you were going to move up. The very fact that I did a good job in Spring Valley got me the Westchester routes later on.”"
Let's assume for a moment that $0.05 is still a good price for newspapers, and assume that the carrier received 20%, or a penny apiece. Also assume that he delivers every day. That's about 580 papers day. If they're really dense subscribers, I guess you could make a delivery every 10 seconds, so about 95 minutes to deliver that number if you never wait for an elevator, climb stairs, etc.
Certainly was a great opportunity for Warren, but an outlier for paper delivery earnings.
I'm seriously not kidding. I've never had avocado toast (was going to make guac) and I'm thinking that brioche avocado toast would be amazing.
I'm pretty sure that multiple orders of magnitude more people spent their entire lives trying to become extremely rich than the few hundred it worked out for.
It's not a retrospective difference, one good way to spot the poseurs: they aren't violently allergic to spending money in a way that doesn't get them more, or at least make that possible. That's table stakes for trying; I don't have the allergy, but I don't fool myself about it either.
This is quite deceptively phrased. 300M is already more than many of us will earn in a lifetime.
That's on you.
> You just absolutely refuse to comprehend compound growth.
What a bizarre thing to say.
Not if you don't have a decent amount of capital to start with. Don't forget that many people, the majority of people, despite their best effort, can't really raise themselves above a certain basic wage and salary, and therefore can't accumulate anything.
Without capital, there's no compounding effect of capital, and you're not going to be rich.
As if this wasn't some programmed delusion. There never was a time when people acted normally and then were corrupted by some new thing. Pretending civilization is normal instead of hunting and gathering. pretending being rich and famous is bad is cope. sure tell yourself all those rich people are "poor in spirit" whatever that means.
> We’re no longer driven by values, morals, loyalty, or family, we’re driven by what the media emphasizes.
"we're not driven by [good words], but instead by [emergent collective attention]"
well duh. it was never as you said it was. media is just civilization-level gossip. and people love gossip because its so informative. media isn't an actor, its a mirror.
I don't think that's what the author is saying. Being rich and famous is fine(well, plenty of people would disagree on the famous part https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/bill_murray_411631) , wanting to be rich and famous at the expense of your own mental health, when you're probably not in a position to become so is not, especially when it causes you to disengage with your own desires, rather than engage more fully.
No, media is not a platonic abstraction, it's like 20 companies, tops, with public chains of command. It's not the emergent expression of the collective unconscious.
Flying on your own schedule, to/from more conveniently located airports, bringing family pets along, having private conversations among the pax, having exactly the catering you wanted, and otherwise having the airplane to yourself is the advantage that makes private jet travel appealing. Just skipping parts of the TSA checks isn't nearly enough.
But there’s a completely 100% rational reason for doing it that he completely ignores. Given the choice of going to a destination for the same price (or at least “affordable”), would you A) fly commercial B) fly private?
Bigger planes can be more comfortable but a large factor is wing loading. Many smaller jets have higher ratios. IMO, the most comfortable airliner in turbulence was the MD-80, which had a tiny wing.
https://turbli.com/blog/the-best-planes-to-fly-through-turbu...
You edited your post to say "buffet-like person". At least have some integrity.
Anyway, throwing insults at each other like children is not what this site is about, let's have substantiative discussions like adults and keep this site fun and interesting and not turn it into reddit.
You can’t profit if your customers all live in your fantasies. If you create products for those imaginary people, no one will buy them and you will fail. That’s why product-market fit is the #1 advice given to entrepreneurs. It recognizes that you will need to leave behind your own ideas of what you should build and who your should build it for, which are probably made out of a lifetime of TV and Social Media bullshit and actually take stock of the real world, the real people in it and what they will pay real money for.
Sadly, quite a few people I know were able to run their fantasy business all the way to the poor house.
Even financially comfortable and unknown is better than rich and famous.
E.g. if you found the cure to cancer ...
There's a semi-well known article from Tim Ferriss [1] where he does the math about prevalence of mental illness in the general population and multiplies that by an audience size of (say) 10 million people. You quickly end up with shockingly large amounts of mentally ill people in your audience. Famous people get death threats pretty much daily, and often their family does too.
This doesn't mean that money doesn't have it advantages too of course, but rich and unknown is pretty much always preferable to rich and famous.
[1] https://tim.blog/2020/02/02/reasons-to-not-become-famous/
And it's probably 10x worse if you're a woman. And 100x worse if you're gay or bi, and 1000x worse if you're trans.
This is true for the vast majority of people. Our problem is that we allow the bizarre outliers for whom this is not true to run everything.
As I pose the question of how we "fix it," I can't help but question how we know if it's something to be fixed at all. I agree that it's making our lives today harder to bear socially and mentally. But, it could also be a natural part of the evolution of our species, perhaps this is the way to get to the trillion-people across multiple-planets scale? Perhaps we individually suffer, mentally or otherwise a bit more than the previous generation, to allow for the maximum number of humans to succeed at a given time.
I too miss being able to focus and long for the now seemingly serene world of the 90s. I too feel distracted by gadgets, apps, politics. But I'm also intrigued by the idea of a future where there are 100 x Einsteins alive, which may come at the cost of having 10000 x Kardashians.
People actually do ask this question of large numbers of kids regularly. Here's one:
https://www.approvedcourse.com/when-i-grow-up/
Top three in that survey were doctor, teacher, astronaut. (I have read other surveys where YouTuber was high on the list -- my point here is that there actually are surveys, no need to speculate about their results.)
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China:
Astronaut - 56%
Teacher - 52%
Musician - 47%
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US:
Youtuber - 30%
Teacher - 25%
Pro Athlete - 21%
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[1] - https://www.businessinsider.com/american-kids-youtube-star-a...
Planet Earth is blue and there's nothing I can do...
>> Becoming rich and famous is mostly a matter of luck.
I am not sure if I agree with this completely.
I recently watched a Netflix movie "Look both ways" with my wife. The movie shows parallel timelines in which the protagonist despite facing different scenarios ends up with a very similar fate in the end. That movie got me thinking if our life's trajectory is based on a few defining moments, or if it is more about the small decisions we make everyday.
For example, if Amazon/Meta didn't work out for Bezos/Mark, where do you think they would end up. My guess is they would still be running some big successful companies, as founders or CEOs or VPs.
Best of luck with that view.
Buffett himself acknowledges how lucky he was, so clearly seeing the role of luck is not incompatible with success: https://www.cnbc.com/2018/05/04/warren-buffett-says-the-key-...
You might also look at Richard Wiseman's work on why some people are "luckier" than others. E.g.: http://richardwiseman.com/resources/The_Luck_Factor.pdf
There's a lovely book, "The Drunkard's Walk - How Randomness Rules Our Lives" that has a good take on this.
I don't have time to find the passage right now, but the idea is essentially this: even if you work in an endeavour where success is overwhelmingly driven by luck, success still requires: taking a chance to have the opportunity to become lucky, an open mind and preparation to recognize the good luck that has occurred, and the skill to exploit the opportunity that luckiness has brought.
One must make chances for luck to occur, and one must have a prepared mind to take advantage of luck when it does occur.
I wouldn't necessarily read the replier as saying they have succeeded and luck had nothing to do with it (i.e. the binary view).
The problem with a view point of "it's all luck," IMO is this will lead you down the path of learned helplessness and even if you do get lucky you won't be in a position to capitalize because if you thought it came down to a roll of the dice, why would you bother skilling up in the first place?
Believing otherwise leads the rich and famous to think that they are better than everyone else, and the less successful to think that they are inherently inferior, when in reality there is a wide overlap in effort, dedication, and strategy between the two groups. One group was just in the right place at the right time while applying those skills, and the other wasn't.
In other words, not becoming rich and famous is not a personal failing. Sometimes you can try anyone's best and simply not succeed.
Mostly bemoaning about not being rich and famous comes down to desiring better (or perceived to be better) versions of items listed above -- or the ability to have "fuck you" money and the fantasy that buying people off will isolate you or solve all your interpersonal problems.
For crying out loud, every generation from the 20th century onwards would have given a similar answer at that age. Heck, I wanted to be a Tony Stark/Bruce Wayne type of person when I was 10. Or a famous writer. I am neither. I'm still quite successful and happy.
Yes modern culture is vapid and shallow. Most things that people are into are vapid and shallow, and always have been. It's the essence of the human condition. That doesn't have much impact on the lives people ultimately go on to lead. Your local environment is far more important.
These two doesn't come alone. They come with their own baggage as well. Being rich will make you, and your family targeted, either by criminals, by "friends and families", or by the government. Being famous is tiring. You constantly need to pander with people that you don't know, with papparazis, with friends of friends of friends, people constantly looking to network. Being famous without being rich is even worse. You just get death threats, hate mail, etc without the financial means to fend off those.
I want to be rich enough so that I don't have to worry about the future or I can do any work I want without worrying about money, for example, creating music, working on a hobby, etc.
I want to be famous enough so that the people that I care remember who I was, who I am, and who I will be, even when I am no longer in their lives, and live across the world.
It turned out that every day, in response to everything he tweeted about any topic, he got zero-context Twitter replies including marriage proposals, sexual propositions, requests for him to visit random people in random cities, and requests for money. That's just what strangers were willing to send him in public.
This made me think that maybe being famous isn't very enjoyable.
Getting famous also isn't that hard. Do something funny or creative and post it on TikTok, it's not that hard to get a video with 1e5 or 1e6 views. Hell, you can post cute videos of your pet and get 1e6 views.
Even $100k in student debt is not that huge on an engineer's salary. People regularly take on multiples of that debt to buy a house. "rest of your life" is an absurd exaggeration - and I'm saying this as someone who thinks the deck is totally stacked against students today.
Being born in the West is pretty much required though because decks are stacked hard against immigrants.