The single smartest take on this that I have heard is that none of these disasters (or poisoning) destroyed Rome. The thing that finally did the Roman empire in was that there was nobody left who wanted it to continue as it was gradually taxed by crises.
Nations and empires can go through crisis after crisis, and Ancient Rome did so for practically 300 years, since the end of the rule of Marcus Aurelius, and the corresponding end of the Pax Romana. Crisis after crisis and civil war after civil war wore away at the empire. Each time, regional governors accrued more power, the central command structure got weaker and weaker, and finally provinces started to break away from the empire.
This is why the fall of Rome is at different times for different people: there wasn't really a clear end of the empire and a move toward fiefdoms and regional governance. The title "emperor of Rome" continued long past the end of the Roman Empire, well into the 2nd millennium AD.
EDIT: I believe that what we are looking at in the USA now is closer to Rome in 180 AD than it is to 470 AD. The Pax Americana and the era of globalization that it enabled (globalization is not a modern phenomenon - Ancient Rome under the Pax Romana had a form of globalization, as did the English empire with the Pax Britannica) is clearly coming to an end. There is still a long way to fall before everything unravels - and a lot more pain, tyranny, and bloodshed.
It is unclear to me that the big boogeymen of US foreign policy - China and Russia - are poised to take over from the US. Russia clearly does not have the economy to support this. The CCP is likely hoping that the US tears itself apart without a foreign war, since China would likely suffer heavy losses in one.