On the other hand, most musicians are completely ambivalent to it, or even thrive in the chaos. Yet the "rules" are useful because they provide a common ground for forming ensembles, or connecting composer and performer. We've watched musicians go down the rabbit hole of nonstandard scales, innovative notation systems, etc., only to discover that nobody can play their material.
I'm a double bassist. I'm happy just to be able to coordinate my ears, brain, and hands, well enough to play the same note the same way twice if I want to. Claiming that I have conscious control over temperament would be laughable. I've got too much other stuff to think about: The notes on the page, the non-notated passages (many jazz bass parts are expected to be improvised), tempo and rhythm, connecting with the rest of the band and the audience, who's coming in the front door, and so forth. This stuff is all happening in real time.