The thing is, you are right. Extremists have been winning more and more power.
[1] https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/aug/26/amy-coney-ba....
AFAIK the USA isn't hanging gay people from cranes or forcing gay people to change gender.
https://abcnews.go.com/International/wireStory/rights-group-...
https://www.economist.com/middle-east-and-africa/2019/04/04/...
Mind changed yet?
And "everyday more similar" is a progression, not an equivalence. A vector, not a single number.
I would not put it past the Southern states to enact laws making it difficult or dangerous to be "out" as gay.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sodomy_laws_in_the_United_Stat...
In some cases these laws also criminalize some forms of heterosexual intercourse, as a fun little example of how discriminatory laws targeting the minority can often be repurposed to punish members of the majority who step out of line.
Also, you know this exists, right? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Log_Cabin_Republicans