Training in 'concrete thinking' can be self-help treatment for depression
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EDIT: This is not to imply that this technique is bad; on the contrary I'm very fascinated by the topic, and just want to make sure I understand it.
Why would lawsuits be a problem?
Add in a lawyer who smells a case, and you could wind up in legal trouble quickly without actually harming anyone. Don't give up on it, just shield yourself appropriately.
As far as waiting until you are successful to do this, there's really no way for you to tell what mental state a purchaser of your app is in, and however unlikely it may be, a tragic scenario similar to what I described above could happen to one of your first users. I think in your case it would be wise to protect yourself now instead of waiting.
Takes a lot of will power though and does not work every single time since it's the mental equivalent to solving the halting problem.
His book 'Learned Optimism' is good.
https://github.com/raganwald/homoiconic/blob/master/2009-05-...
Your comments regarding the community were dead on. The ad hominem and personal nature of so much, well, I hesitate to even call it criticism since it's really just thinly veiled hate, has got to stop. It's absolutely a recipe for creating unhappiness, for making people feel bad, and for turning off potential contributors.
"This is the first demonstration that just targeting thinking style can be an effective means of tackling depression. " (emphasis mine)
While I don't doubt it can be effective, this study is only the first step towards CNT being anything resembling a silver bullet.
http://www.faculty.ucr.edu/~sonja/papers/LSD2006.pdf http://www.faculty.ucr.edu/~sonja/papers.html
From the paper:
"In CNT, the training exercises involved patients’ identifying a recent mildly to moderately upsetting difficulty and working through standardized steps to facilitate concrete thinking: (i) using mental imagery to focus on sensory details during the difficult event, noticing what is specific about the event and the context in which it occurs; (ii) noticing the process and sequence by which the difficult event unfolds (‘How did it happen?’), including warning signs and actions that may have influenced its outcome; (iii) focusing on how to move forward by specifying the particular steps and behaviours to do next (Watkins, 2009; Watkins et al. 2009)."
My spouse is under depression and has such symptoms. Yet, I do not think I'll be able to convince her of undergoing such training. She refuses to believe she is under depression, which is due to an ego issue from being a meditation practitioner / counselor herself. Yet she has exactly the symptoms described -- over-generalization of any small negative thing to ultimately falling into an infinite loop about all the problems she has and shouting at me or my kid for several hours straight. This happens about twice a week.
Could I be doing something that can help? Thanks for any advice.
Apologies if this does not belong to the HN forum.
My oldest son used to do stuff like this as a child -- get wrapped around the axle about what a bad child he was because I crabbed at him for not doing his chores or something. He was maybe 14 when we were in the car one day and heard a news blurb about a teenager (14 to 16 years old) being tried as an adult for murder in a bank robbery case. I turned to him and said "Killed anyone here lately? Robbed any banks? How bad are you really?" And then talked about, yeah, I really need you to do your chores and I will crab at you when they don't get done because it's actually important to our quality of life, but if your mom bitching at you about not taking out the trash is your biggest problem, then life is really not that bad. This incident was a watershed moment and he never went back to being so very prone to wallowing in self pity and giving himself such a hard time.
So it is possible to do this for someone else even if they don't want to do it for themselves. You have to be gentle and have good timing and not wear out your welcome (ie don't simply sound like a nag, which is not a positive experience). But judicious use of such interventions can make a permanent positive difference.
Best of luck, whatever the answer turns out to be.