I live in an house.
I walk 5 minutes to the nearest bus station, there in the worst case, in public holiday I may have to wait 30 mins at most, but because the bus hours are public, I can leave my house at the last moment.
10-15 mins with the bus, or 8 if there are no car jamming the road, I'm at a train station.
This train station have a train line that bring me in the middle of Paris in 13 minutes.
Personally, if I have to take more than 2 modalities of transit to get where I have to go then I just use a car (taxi).
Maybe the French are a bit different, but in America no one would want that. The idea that you’re beholden to the others schedule (or multiple others!) and it could be late or off or whatever or if you miss it you’re screwed is exactly what Americans fear most about communal transit. The American independent mindset would kill that.
If there are issue on a line, there are apps that will route you away from it.
And the other big thing is, these 76 minutes are not lost, you can do something in this time, for me it's reading a lot on the net.
Now, if you want to do this commute in car, well it won't be good for your mental health, then the traffic will vary a lot, and can add 30-45mins at worst on your commute.
In isolation I would much prefer to drive in, traffic and all. But it costs too much, and I know that’s not a realistically scalable solution for many reasons. But that I even wish I could is representative of just how much I hate NYC’s public transit system.
Now I’m not a transit hater. I loved Seoul’s and Tokyo’s for example. But to get NYC’s transit, let alone any other American city’s transit to that level is completely impossible due to cultural and social reasons. And no - cars have little to do with those reasons.
Middle school 20mins away on feet.
High school is 25mins away in bus.
In practice, in Paris, at commute hours the car is often slower than using public transit.
I could totally lives without it.
Almost all of my needs can be covered at feet distance, or with public transit.
I would vote to restrict further the cars.
As soon as you take every cost the car make, it's not worth it anymore. And I'm not speaking only about money, but the external cost generated due to the car: It reduce biking and walking by taking up space on the road, and being dangerous for both. It pollute the air and reduce our lifespans. It make a tons of noise, which also reduce lifespan.
There are certainly times it would be more convenient to have a car, and most people around here do. I've just never got around to it (though I do have a licence, and hire one maybe once a year for a trip to somewhere awkward).
If you live near the middle of London, on the other hand, a car is positively unusual: the public transport is ubiquitous, often faster than sitting in traffic, and much cheaper than parking. That's not true of most places in Europe, though.