Can you point to any sources? I would like to read about how this will be accepted even if the majority is against inclusion.
It's an extremely nuanced topic, and it was extensively discussed in the last core-developer call on Thursday. Every single operator has been warned that going against the fork-choice rules could, and ultimately will, result in social mitigations against spec-deviating behavior.
This could be set of socially executed slashings of validators that don't respect the fork-choice rules, or an honest-minority executed hard-fork that effectively causes misbehaving validators to bleed until they start respecting the protocol's rules.
I could be wrong on multiple counts, especially regarding re-orgs, but this is how I've understood the issue.