>This is not my position. My position is "Some Women Affected".
Ok. I think you're honest, but the people you're defending are not. If 'some' women are affected, then women deserve only 'some' of the collective attention of society. Therefore 'Unconcious Bias Against Men' should be a recurring headline in media as the other headline for women is. Therefore 'Male Genital Mutilation' should be an important and widespread topic of discussion and not an obscure piece of arcane trivia that google doesn't bother to index in the first 10 pages. Etc, etc, etc.
>I don't think assertions about what is or isn't inherent to feminism are possible.
Oh I think they are. Feminism is at its core a cluster of interlocking beliefs that women are fundamentally and deeply oppressed by men, that women are locked in an eternal conflict with men, and that this war can only be fought on the gender-wide level, with no room for compromise or exceptions unless those made by men. Show me a piece of feminist media\publication (time limit : 20 min), and I will show you those implicit claims in its (sub)text.
It's very easy to see if you know what to look for.
>It's a term that identifies different sets of (often contradictory or opposite) beliefs depending on who you talk to.
Which is exactly why it should be derided and avoided by all honest people, it's a vacuous identity. Vacuous identites are a tool for the dishonest to use the stupid.
>it's just moral cover for a person's own beliefs
I like this framing, specifically the term 'Moral Cover'. It encapsulates the cowardice inherent in Feminism: instead of coming right out and stating their values in reasonable (but debatable) definitions, moral cowards prefer to cover their beliefs inside vague rituals, cloudy language, and metaphysical confabulations about "Patriarchy", the invisible force that men supposedly have the power to deploy to harm and persecute women anywhere anytime.
>fairness, dignity, and respect
But wouldn't this be trivial ? Do you need an ideology to tell people you want to be treated with fairness, dignity and respect ? Do you need anything else besides the Golden Rule ? Do you need think tanks and Affirmative Action and UN committees ?
This is called a motte-and-bailey maneuver[1]. I'm not accusing you of engaging in it, just that you have fell for it.
Feminists have plenty of other claims and demands besides "fairness, dignity and respect", namely the cluster of beliefs that I summarized above. This is the "Bailey", a pleasant but indefensible territory\claim. As long as feminists are not pressed or forced to argue their case, they can occupy the Bailey. When under attack, however, feminists can retreat to the much more trivially trite "fairness, dignity and respect", this is the "Motte", a very well-defended fort but a useless place to live. They can hide behind those trivially defensible claims till the attack subsides, then they can return to their Bailey again. It's a useful pattern to be aware of.
[1]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motte-and-bailey_fallacy