> I consider this unacceptable.
On the other hand, I consider this a feature.
I'm not saying you are wrong, but I am saying different people have different ideas and requirements about how they want things like this to work.
For me, most of my Signal chats have disappearing messages enabled, to intentionally ensure there is no long term archive of conversations (assuming you trust the other people to not be screenshotting everything). It gets you into the habit of storing message that may be useful later (mostly for me stuff like event details or addresses), with the benefit of making everybody in the conversation a little more inclined to treat it all as ephemeral and be somewhat more candid then you might be in SMS or email. Not _quite_ as candid as face to face in private, but closer.
There's a widely used and agreed on signal for most of my group chats, where setting disappearing messages to 5 minutes is understood to mean "juicy gossip or legal grey area chat is about to follow" and setting it back to 8 hours or 1 week means "OK, we're done with that discussion, back to regular chat".