On Remembering Advice

When I was young, I thought to find answers to my problems by asking my peers for an advice, talking my problems through.

It was a suffering for me, because the advice I got were always from the perspective/experience of other people, not suitable for my individual core values or my understanding of the world, not really fitting to my physical and emotional situation.

Once I admitted to myself to be an introvert, I could start dealing freely with my problems in my own way, making my own world experiences and learning form my own trying, building my own opinions.

Now I am very hesitant to give other people advice -- any opinion I try to put upon the next person feels so manipulative. People (including me) are very selfish when giving advice.