> nobody I know with starlink has gotten better than 100 down. That is not really broadband

AFAIK the minimum speed for "broadband" is 25 down.

I am a highly online person living in a large city with many choices of ISP at many different speeds, and I still only have a 110mbps connection. It seems strange to me to suggest that speed is universally inadequate, though I can understand why large households may need higher bandwidth.