I didn’t exit for a new opportunity so much as my sanity.
My personal relationships, mental and physical health, all took a heavy hit.
I stuck around for the money. I held my initial stock vests until 2019, skipping the whole “eggs in one basket” advice. I then sold half my equity, and then I sold my 2020 and 2021 grants at almost close to the top.
I don’t have to work for a while, and my spouse earns enough for me to stay at home until I’m bored, without selling any investments. Financially we’re completely secured now.
I almost lost my spouse. I practically had no friends or life by the time I left. I’d worked so hard and so long but lost focus on myself, my family, and any notion of enjoying life.
I wish I started a family sooner. I wish I kept in close touch with siblings. I wish I’d been closer with my parents, especially when my dad was still alive.
The biggest opportunity that I missed again and again is realizing no piece of shit company, no matter how much they pay you, or whatever title they give you, is worth throwing away your life for. Amazon was a hell hole. It still is a hell hole, but it’s not my problem anymore.