Ask HN: Where would you move to be around startup minded people [USA]?

I've never lived in a "big city" but always like an hour or so out in the suburbs or past them. I don't know anyone in my day-to-day who is into software or technology. There are obviously a ton of places online, but the experience of being in-person or in close proximity to physical meet ups is a lot more valuable for me. I've tried attending some virtual meet ups and honestly they've not been as engaging or similar quality to the in-person versions.

Where would you recommend me to move to be around startup oriented people? I'm interested in almost everything, especially supply chains and practical technologies, and not so much into finance/crypto.