Yeah - in the same way the worst US stats are always compared to the best or average EU stats - it's interesting you don't often see the reverse.
Why is no one comparing gay rights in Massachusetts to Hungary? But everyone is comparing gay rights in Mississippi to Norway?
There's a lot of variance in the US and the EU. There's even a lot of variance in a single state like California!
The US - by design - is supposed to be pretty similar to the EU - in that the states have A LOT of rights and autonomy.
Frankly, I'm willing to let Mississippi and Alabama do what they want if that means they don't get to tell New York and California what they can and can't do.
The vast, vast majority of the US does not live in ultra conservative counties. Even within a state like Texas that has some crazy laws, a lot of that is undone in the metros where everyone lives - Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, & El Paso are all decently liberal and make up >50% of Texas's population.
The idea that Texas is "a 3rd world country" is laughable. But you'll hear this from the "left" that wants to take states rights away so they can tell the "right" how to live. They never really think about what it would be like if the "right" got the say to tell them how to live...