Me: This software makes a box. It has nothing to do with human rights, human sexuality, or governance. I will not adopt a "Code of Conduct" as a condition for distributing it to others. Therefore, I do not distribute it any longer.

My stance on trans people is not what you characterize; but it is not relevant to this discussion. There are many places where one's stance on $(political_issue) is not relevant, and that does not automatically imply that someone is taking the side opposite yours.