It may also simply not be possible. The DE10-Nano has DDR memory for example but most MiSTer cores need extra add-on SDRAM. The reason being the latency on the DDR is just too high for the accurate emulate most cores are aiming for. So SDRAM is required. On this board you don't have that option. Though perhaps you can build your own DDR controller, with the DE10-Nano you have to use the hard controller built into the FPGA. Perhaps another controller specifically optimised for the latency needs of MiSTer cores could work. Each core would need potentially significant porting work to use this new setup as they get direct access to the SDRAM pins in MiSTer. You'd need to trace back to where they're actually generating memory accesses and then plug that into whatever new DDR controller you had.
The downside is that you'd need custom drivers and software on the host system to redirect input events to the FPGA and handle the video feed it produces.
Side note - this is the smallest pitch component I've ever soldered. Used a stencil and a hotplate since these are 0.4mm QFNs.
Edit - I really need to update the pictures. I forgot to twist the differential pairs before taking them.