Sorry, this is a total strawman. Automation doesn't need to be integrated with the build in such a way that it creates noise, and it doesn't mean you need to let changes be applied without human intervention.
I'm hooked up with Snyk which scans all of my dependencies and sends me a summary email if it discovers any vulnerabilities. It creates PRs that can patch dependency vulnerabilities, and I can apply them if I approve of the change. If I don't think the change is worth it or the vulnerability is relevant, I can go to the Snyk site and mark a vulnerability to be ignored, or even tell it to ignore it for a month or whatever. I'm sure Snyk isn't unique, either.
Yes, a human should be involved in decisions. No, it doesn't need to be noisy.
I'm on Node.js and working on multiple projects with crazy numbers of dependencies, and the number of "new vulnerabilities" I see is typically a few per month at most. Some months there are no new notifications at all. It simply doesn't change that quickly, and it's not constant noise unless you ignore the notifications, and that's just bad software engineering.