EDIT: Soft delete is a trivial piece of code when the framework has a well defined transaction system for its ORM. It's not really related to Rails per se. Your statement is extremely disingenuous, while trying to look smart. Audit trails _can_ be(but don't have to be) more complex, especially when the framework uses a lot of stored procedures to handle operations. But other than that these frameworks are specifically designed to REDUCE complexity of such operations, dependency costs - which are huge in node.js, specifically because you can mix and match anything into everything.
Node.js people tend to stitch together XSS solutions, random templating solutions based on their frontend work, even basic salting of auth passwords becomes unpredictable because you have 30 options on minimal auth libraries.
But yes nothing is ever free. If you want to use Rails you still have to learn ruby and the framework and a basic understand of how ActiveRecord builds queries if you want to be writing performant code. And the same applies to Laravel, Django, or whatever of the 50 patchwork node.js solutions you want to base your code on.