whatever brings you happiness. I spend little on experiences like vacations and tend to enjoy the experience leading to a purchase and usage of a thing. E.g. researching what guitar effect pedals would be cool is as enjoyable to me as using it to create sounds after I buy it. This also has an interesting side effect that often I'm satisfied without actually acquiring a thing but when I do - it leads to a better quality (whatever that means in that particular case) but also more expensive thing