200 mile range cars and 20 mile average commutes make this not a necessity. The need to use fast charging even less, as slow charging from 5pm-5am provides more than enough miles for the average commute.
I wonder what your electrician thinks about HVAC systems? They all do turn on at roughly the same time (a top cause of brownouts in under prepared grids), don't have a slow charging equivalent (they even depend on large capacitors to start the compressors). The even worse case is a house with multiple heat pumps and auxiliary heating.
Or what does your electrician think about hot water heaters? Fast charging requires similar supply as every house coming home and taking a shower at 5pm.
Or, perhaps the most likely, every house starting the oven at 5pm, the stove, The microwave, With some hot water.
What about all of these combined?
Information; on circuit breaker size required
Low speed charger 120x15amp
Highest speed residential charger: 240x40amp
Water heater 240x30amp
Instant whole house hot water heater 240x40
HVAC 240x30
Aux heat 240x30
Stove 240x30
Oven 240x30
Microwave 120x15