The trend should be clear now, everything that's marketed as "smart" isn't for your benefit, but for the $$$ of someone else.
Also, the smart meters do more than just enable remote shut-off on a per unit basis, they also allow for more granular data capture around your usage patterns throughout the day, which someone might not appreciate for a number of reasons, e.g. viewing that data as private, or preferring flat-rate billing as opposed to the time of day based pricing schemes that it enables.
More generally, these sorts of systems are not without their advantages, but they are characterized by an increase in centralized control and surveillance.
It could be used to avoid unnecessarily inconveniencing customers, as you suggest, or it could be used to improve the strength of utility companies’ positions in disputes. Perhaps both?