If you have a small open source project, absolutely.
In the case of Notepad++ I would say this would be a very fast path to burnout. I don't believe anyone has the mental power to deal with the ammount of assholes out there, you will just crash and burn.
It's important to separate your work from yourself. The user was frustrated by the software, not by you.
Well...
> You have made what used to be a good editor into a massive pile of garbage.
I’d say the person is frustrated by both.
Yes but why should the maintainer be obligated to endure that? Just because it's a _human_ thing to do doesn't mean that it's a correct thing to do.
As someone who works in open source professionally, if I took every email and bug report I got like this to heart, I would have quit software years ago. (Some of my users apparently wish I would.)
Sure, glean some actionable information from it if you want, but if you let every frustrated or angry bug report and email impinge on you emotionally, it will destroy your soul.