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Sorry for the rambling, but I am still not emotionally disconnected enough from it to concisely talk about it.
I think the biggest reason people in small towns may be a bit quicker to help is that people in cities are a little conditioned by the bystander effect to assume that people around them, or the authorities, are better equipped to help.
But any random individual asked for help in a city is likely to go well beyond their duty and be quite helpful.
It's not just "equipped to help". It's also that random untrained people can do more harm than good. Hell, even random trained people can do more harm that good when there are too many people around.
I'm not a medical professional, but I have some first aid training and have been the most-trained first responder in not-even-crowded areas on a few occasions. Even with only 10 people around, managing the crowd while providing care becomes difficult.
The article even mentions:
> “It was a wonderful problem to have,” said school district superintendent, Eric Hoyt, “but we probably had too many volunteers show up.”
In a town of 171 people. Just 171 people, and crowd management became a problem.
Now drop into Manhattan, with approximately 1.629 million more people. If "everyone" showed up to an incident, you'd have at least an order of magnitude more deaths from the stampede to help than from the original event.
People in dense cities move away from the scene of an accident in order to get out of the way, which in most cases is genuinely the best thing they can do to help.
I have first aid training, too, and my impulse is not to rush to help but to look around at other people and see if they're going to do something.
Until a certain amount of sacrifices have to be made. Then things start getting tribal. The sacrifices do not even have to be material, simply sacrificing or losing socioeconomic status relative to others is sufficient.
This was always true but it seems to me that social media, in all its forms, not only takes your privacy, it also takes your empathy. At the root of many mental health disorders exists narcissism and for the past few decades an increasing number of people have been added to the empathy erasing internet hate machine.
Just look around, the proof is everywhere.
> Until a certain amount of sacrifices have to be made.
I remember some political philosophy online course from some reasonably reputable American college that was quite nicely set up - it had a lecturer and two token students (a man and a woman). At some point the lecturer asked the students (IIRC the topic was anarchism) if they thought that people were fundamentally basically good - the man was like "yeah I think people are basically good", the woman said something along the lines of "Well, I grew up in Yugoslavia, so not really..."
The advent of the agricultural revolution, the telegraph, and the teletype each resulted in massive increases in "tribal size". To the point that after the teletype, it was a bipolar cold war.
So I don't think you have any qualifications to say a single word in this matter.
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/lbj-convince-the-lowest-wh...
I posit that at the root of all societal friction is the widening income/wealth gap within the US, along with shifting socioeconomic statuses with some losing ground and some gaining ground.
Note that people are in many tribes of many sizes simultaneously, and constantly shifting priorities and allegiances as it suits them, and trying to figure out others’ priorities and allegiances.
Why would you think this when there is little meaningful difference income-wise between Democrats and Republicans?
A significant chunk of the US votes on single issue matters that have nothing to do with economic status (abortion, gun rights).
> little meaningful difference income-wise between Democrats and Republicans?
https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/religious-landscape-stu... is striking-- and when you look into the sub-demographics of the lowest and highest band it gets more interesting still-- e.g. that 27% in the lowest income band is shockingly rural.
The only divide is in whether it’s something that is even a problem that needs to be addressed. Income inequality doesn’t divide people itself, just the focus on it does.
I don't agree. We're increasingly divided along lines that are very well correlated with demographic factors. Like, age, sure, but also income, religion, race, etc.
And the link makes it pretty clear income is a pretty strong predictor of political leanings. (And when you combine income + rural/urban split, it's a very strong one).
Health care is just the starkest illustration of this. One sees the same phenomenon with any other necessity: housing, food, transportation, etc.
You trade off dollar wealth green wealth: more trees, bigger land, less crowding, cleaner air, quieter environment, private living. The costs are in Longer drives, higher prices, less selection, lower pay, greater energy use, potentially far fewer cultural/educational/social opportunities.
I wonder if the design of our so-called democracy has something to do with it. It's funny how this major foundation of our society escapes scrutiny, and it is mostly only the players within it who get any attention.
Be kind, please.
Fortunately yes, though I think I'd still give the edge to small towns for this. In cities, people are a lot more wary of being scammed, since it happens more often in areas with more people.
Having spent a decade now here, it feels a bit like when you’re getting a cavity ground out at the dentist and they finally hit the nerve. Spending time away, “back home” or in some other tight-knit society only seems to fill it in for it to be ground back down.
For the folks that can and do thrive in “the city,” I find it fascinating on how we must differ in mind and spirit.
After almost 10 years of it, my family is finally taking the plunge and we are getting out. (Hooray for remote work and StarLink!)
> Philpot et al. (2019) examined over 200 sets of real-life surveillance video recordings [across 3 countries]...they found that intervention was the norm, and in over 90% of conflicts one or more bystanders intervened to provide help.
The study you cited, indeed, doesn't deny the bystander effect that each person becomes less likely to help as more people are present. It just argues that in the most dangerous situations, the odds of someone intervening goes up slightly as the number of people increase. See https://eprints.lancs.ac.uk/id/eprint/134891/1/Would_I_be_He...
I can tell you, my probability of intervening is lower the more people that are around. The total probability of someone intervening may go up or down based on a lot of circumstances. This is consistent with many individual research findings and meta-analyses, e.g. https://asset-pdf.scinapse.io/prod/2107050526/2107050526.pdf
As other people point out, it is rational and even helpful to be less inclined to intervene when more people are around and are likely to be able to help.
I linked the study above. Note that the individual probability of intervention falls as the number of people goes up (and the study you cited mentions this).
In some situations, it looks like the total probability of any intervention goes up as the number of people increases. In other situations, it looks like it goes down. The paper cited to produce that couple of sentences on Wikipedia makes the distinction quite clear and does not dispute the individual probability of intervention falls: https://eprints.lancs.ac.uk/id/eprint/134891/1/Would_I_be_He...
Note that it quite clearly says that it does not refute the bystander effect: ". It is important that by examining intervention on the situational rather than the individual level, our research does not evaluate whether bystanders are less likely to provide help when in the presence of other bystanders compared with when they are alone (i.e., the bystander effect). "
I agree and don't dispute the Kitty Genovese thing was bullshit, but the bystander effect-- a reduced probability for individuals to respond when more people are around-- is one of the most replicated findings in behavioral psychology.
As to the probability of someone intervening-- it looks like the odds are best when a small number of people are around vs. property crime, and best when a large number of people are around vs. dangerous/emergency situations. Also, the efficacy of the latter intervention, assessed by victims, seems to fall as the number of surrounding people increase.
This is all well discussed in the wikipedia article and in the text of the particular study you're relying upon.
It does seem likely, given what we know about bystander effect. In cities, we're conditioned to expect someone else will take care of whatever's wrong, and this is less true in rural environs.
To me the amount of people streaming from everywhere in the entire country (!) to help fix up a region that has been struck with disaster moved me to tears more than once now.
And the happier I am about this circumstance, the angrier I get at politicians and some media.
It also isn't unusual in the cities. Humans are wonderful and terrible everywhere. It reminds me of the 30 Rock episode where Jack and Liz go to Georgia to find a new comedian in touch with the "real America" and Liz keeps insisting that all Americans are real Americans and there is no "real America."
The acts of people after 9/11 in NYC remind us of the good in humans just as this small town inspires us.
As Mr Rogers said, "When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping."
My family is from a small town who moved to the city right before I was born and there is something my mom said to me when I was a kid that got stuck in my mind which is the awareness of death, in big cities is like people don't die because you don't know about it. Although it may sound macabre I think that knowing about death helps me better understand being alive.
Cities have plentiful and varied communities, but it's easier to be lost in the masses. Many people lose empathy amongst so many other humans, or so some claim.
I was raised in a small town. Every coin has its other side. "Every single person has an impact on your life." Certainly if the community disapproves of your appearance, skin color, or religion, they can ostracize you, they'll each take turns with their individual impact to turn your life to shit.
Small towns can be bucolic, beautiful, and communal, however your mileage may vary dramatically from in-group to in-group and tribe to tribe. Beware your own scarlet letter, whether it's your skin color, religion, or otherwise.
> Although it may sound macabre I think that knowing about death helps me better understand being alive.
Wise words.
In a small town, if the town is the ingroup, and you're the outgroup... you're going to have a bad time.
Totally agree and that is probably one of the reasons I never went back to my town. Sense of belonging and tribalism definitely comes with drawbacks but also builds a feeling of having to stay together to move forward which is what makes that things like the post happen.
I've only ever lived in cities or suburbs. During a major calamity, those of us in the city drove out to a small town that was nearly wiped out and gave supplies, money, and time. When our own city was hit by an extremely damaging and deadly storm, we took care of our neighbors (generators for refrigerators, places to sleep, help with repairs, food, etc), even if we had just met them for the first time.
In cities, you have many communities, and if you aren’t accepted in one you can find another.
You cannot live on an island in Maine without community
I heard a crunch and a group of people at the exit all jumped and rushed over. I hadn't seen the actual accident, but feared the worst. Once I was street level the group that had rushed over had already called 911, was comforting the person on the moped (they were fine, at most concussed), and directing traffic around the accident. I ended up leaving because there wasn't anything to do and didn't want to get in the way.
60 seconds was all it took for a group of strangers to provide an overwhelming amount of help.
Walking home, I heard the siren of the ambulance, but that eventually faded as I walked another block or so, the scene of the accident swallowed by the vastness of the city.
I probably walked past a couple hundred people or so that evening, all of them unaware of what had happened under Western, yet filled with the hope all of them could provide an overwhelming amount of help.
yes it is. last week i saw a homeless man follow a woman onto a packed train, scream in her face and throw her across the train, and nobody did anything. i’ll let you guess the races of the victim and the attacker. this was on the L in union square. no one cares. this country has been dying for decades and it’s almost completely dead
However, it turns out this whole incident was apparently due to the lack of a railroad crossing guard system of any kind at the intersection. The most basic system has flashing lights warning of oncoming trains, and even that wasn't present.
https://www.kwch.com/2022/06/30/amtrak-derailment-places-spo...
In that respect it's also a story about the poor state of American infrastructure.
Given the costs involved, IMO it would probably be better to close at least half of the crossings in (e.g. relatively flat farmland) areas where the road grid incurs these crossings at a rate more than one per mile. But as with decisions to spend money, choosing which crossings to close (ostensibly so that the remainder may have automated protection added) becomes a political "hot potato" that can easily cause the process to stall.
[0] https://cs.trains.com/trn/f/111/t/292768.aspx
[1] https://www.kansascity.com/news/state/missouri/article263049...
Rather BNSF et al should be paying for the full cost of their own infrastructure, either by building out the necessary safety devices or simply ending the full-speed aspect of the crossings they don't want to pay for. And I say this as someone who like trains, has taken the Southwest Chief cross country a few times, and wishes we had more passenger rail in general.
Also, I don't know if you were applying the term to the road of the crossing involved in this crash, but this road is not one I would characterize as "well used"; more like "exceedingly rarely used" (thus the lack of active crossing protection).
Finally according to the previously referenced Trains Forum thread ("Posted by blue streak 1 on Wednesday, June 29, 2022 11:32 AM"), the railroad existed 60-70 years prior to the road in question. I believe it is this circumstance which places the onus on MODOT to defend the users of their later-arriving road from hazards associated with rail traffic on the preexisting BNSF line (with BNSF being an involved party).
I understand citing posts another public forum does not necessarily meet the gold standard of citations, but all of these facts align with my preexisting understanding of the situation.
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Southern_Transcon calls out Mendon, MO as a station on the Marceline subdivision
The specific busyness of these tracks is all the more reason all crossings should be lighted/gated. And while we're at it, there should be sensors/cameras to check for stuck vehicles and communicate that to the train a few miles away - if a train going at 90mph takes 3 miles to stop, that actually means the gates only need to come down two minutes before the train gets to the crossing. But there's no impetus to proactively address such problems until the incentives are reformed.
> I believe it is this circumstance which places the onus on MODOT to defend the users of their later-arriving road from hazards associated with rail traffic on the preexisting BNSF line
Sure, but understanding the legal justification doesn't change what I said. This is an instance where the common law first-come first-serve system completely fails. See also: water "rights". It would be a different story if the tracks were also a public way and open for use by everyone, but in general private control over the commons should be rejected.
If BNSF is not already today 100% responsible for installing & maintaining maximal protection equipment at all RR/road crossings that were installed by government over its preexisting tracks,
then BNSF should have all of its property (tracks and right of way (RR track bearing real estate)) converted into "the commons" (i.e. BNSF should be nationalized)
and the owner of "the commons" (government) will then resolve all RR/road crossing safety issues (by RR closure, road closure, or deployment of crossing improvements sufficient to match safety levels attained in the country having the safest RR/road crossings in the world, at its prerogative) all while operating the new national RR (carrying freight and passengers) safely and efficiently to ensure supply line problems attributable to RR causes do not worsen.
Is this accurate?
No, I said nothing of the sort. Many times, homeowners own the land up until the middle of the road in front of their house. But they don't have the right of way when pulling into the road, and must interact with other users of the public way in an equitable manner orthogonal to ownership. I'm advocating something similar for owners of railroad tracks, whereby trains don't automatically get the right of way, but rather track owners are responsible for doing improvements to mediate contention if they want trains to travel through intersections at speed. The default state of an uncontrolled level crossing should result in lack of speed rather than lack of safety.
Any clarification of what's going on in this regard would be appreciated.
You're looking to assign blame, I'm looking to say, "How does this problem get resolved". Very different questions.
Being in a denser area where crossings generally have a light and a gate, it really irks me when I see a no-visibility at-grade crossing with just an intended-to-be-ignored "yield" sign for the road. It's nothing more than a pathetic fiction to legally cover the railroads ass after the fact, and the setup should be outright illegal.
I've experienced different expectations in less dense areas with generally clear landscapes, say where a single main road runs parallel to the tracks and all the branches on one side cross the tracks. But overall US railroad standards are stuck in the 19th century and we shouldn't just accept that state of affairs.
Amtrak isn't quite the giant evil corporation in the sense that Amazon is. If anything, it's more of a dying relic propped up by sheer nostalgia. Congress keeps it on life support with small, occasional injections of funds. Its infrastructure and equipment aren't just obsolete, but dying, neglected by a nation who's almost entirely switched to automobiles and planes. Amtrak is a lifeline into the heartland, where many small towns have no other transit options.
But Amtrak is largely unprofitable outside of the Northeast Corridor, which runs up and down the East Coast and has fancy commuter trains for the rich businesspeople and politicians. The rest of its network runs on decades-old equipment and trains and barely keeps up with operating expenditures. It shares rail lines with freight trains, but is subordinate to them, so passengers have to wait any time a freight train wants the track.
It's stuck in a catch-22.
As a business, it can't turn a profit because, at current ticket prices, it is often slower and more expensive than flights -- not even considering the money lost due to time off of work. For shorter hauls, intercity buses are often quicker, cheaper, and have more time slots. It's not really a practical way to travel for most people in our economy except as a form of recreation, almost like a land cruise, or for small towns with no other options, or certain religious sects that don't drive (Mennonites). So it's not just a very profitable business thing to begin with.
So why don't we just nationalize it and run it as a national utility? We can't; it was specifically founded in the 70s to NOT be a government-run service. Nonetheless, in the decades since, it stays alive only because of government injections... yet it can't be directly run by the government.
So it's a private business that can't survive on its own, doesn't have enough capital to do anything differently, and can't go out of business because Congress keeps propping it up. It's literally just stuck on life support. The wiki on it is pretty interesting reading: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amtrak#Public_funding
Covid hit them pretty hard too and caused a lot of shutdowns. They have to negotiate with something like 20 different unions to keep operating, when they've already been unprofitable for decades. Biden gave them more money, but I think that just keeps the death spiral going for a bit longer rather than actually fixing anything.
Personally, I think the age of passenger rail is sadly behind us. A part of me wishes they could resurrect under a different model, maybe more like a fancy land-based cruise ship, with fun amenities on board, more sleeper cabins, things for young people (clubs, pubs, games, maybe even traveling concerts), whatever -- e.g. make the train its own destination. But that requires both the will to transform their service and the capital to do so, and they have neither. And so, for the foreseeable future, Congress keeps paying, and the train keeps a rollin'...
>> In that respect it's also a story about the poor state of American infrastructure.
Was the truck actively crossing the tracks when it got hit or was it disabled? I haven't found any explanation of why it was there.
Local residents had apparently been warning of the danger of this particular crossing for some time [1]. A mockup of the accident scene is at [0].
The lawsuits have begun [3]. One of the suits alleges that the trucking company failed to properly maintain its equipment, which suggests to me the possibility that the truck stalled on the tracks.
[0] https://www.kansascity.com/news/state/missouri/article263060...
[1] https://www.kansascity.com/news/state/missouri/article262969...
[2] https://goo.gl/maps/n7WNSFMiqYgbEQQp9
[3] https://www.kansascity.com/news/state/missouri/article263084...
I don't think this is an infrastructure failing as much as it is a "Why would we need that?"
(Also, if the live production is touring near you- go see it. I saw it live a few years ago and it was awesome!)
Americans are also especially bad at tackling problems that require a small, consistent, amount of help over a long period of time.
I’m honestly not sure why this is.
I don’t think it’s a uniquely American trait.
Small gradual changes are hard to see, many people might overlook them entirely, and the reward is stretched thin or very far off. You might not even see the full outcome in your lifetime.
It’s easy to see why people favor short term results.
This old proverb comes to mind: “A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in.”
We’ve still got a long way to go.
Nobody said anything about it in 40 years. There's a lot more nuance to small town people pulling together than the train wreck shows.
I grew up outside of Kirksville MO. I've even taken the Southwest Chief from La Plata one or two stops NE of Mendon, to Newton KS. Idealizing small town or rural life is a mistake. The issue is more complicated than "rural Americans pull together, urban Americans do not".
Communities aligned to a single goal can do amazing things, the downside is just that sometimes that single goal is “protect a murderer that we all like” or “commit genocide”.
The "Mendon, Missouri" story had as its theme that small town/rural America pulls together. There's nuance to that, and it's a mistake to ignore the nuance. The Skidmore story illustrates that, and it took place in the same rural NW Missouri millieu.
Your comment was relevant and on-topic.
Seriously.
What kind of century are those people from?
I don’t think we’ve evolved to live among millions of people.
I say the opposite: most urban dwellers just take it easy. You don't have to conform to whatever ideals your small town holds. There are freaks, but they don't demand your participation in their freakery. Live and let live! Living in a small town is suffocating if you're at all different.
I don't think we've evolved to live in small groups.
Rural folks have lots of positive things going on. But they’re also mostly shrinking towns, and I’ve had teenagers try to run me (on my bike, they in cars) off the road for fun on a Saturday night.
I wouldn’t want to be a teenager in rural America. But there are some nice things about being a kid and an adult.
https://mostateparks.com/park/katy-trail-state-park
It's a 240 mile protected bike path.
KSHB - https://www.kshb.com/news/local-news/mendon-missouri-communi...
KCUR - https://www.kcur.org/news/2022-06-28/amtrak-derailment-mendo...
https://www.amazon.com/Paradise-Built-Hell-Extraordinary-Com...
It tends heavily to revisit certain themes, but overall it drives home the point that regardless of the social acrimony and political polarization that dominate social media and seem to divide Americans into inexorably inimical tribes, when it comes to everyday interactions, most Americans seem to be pretty decent and kind people.
From the Publisher:
"The most startling thing about disasters, according to award-winning author Rebecca Solnit, is not merely that so many people rise to the occasion, but that they do so with joy. That joy reveals an ordinarily unmet yearning for community, purposefulness, and meaningful work that disaster often provides. A Paradise Built in Hell is an investigation of the moments of altruism, resourcefulness, and generosity that arise amid disaster’s grief and disruption and considers their implications for everyday life. It points to a new vision of what society could become-one that is less authoritarian and fearful, more collaborative and local."
<https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/301070/a-paradise-b...>
You can be. But you can also cause more harm than good as the zeroth responder (removing an impaled object, moving someone with a back injury).
Fortunately, there are affordable high-quality first responder courses. In the extreme, becoming a certified EMT takes only 100-200 hours of instruction, and there are many training options that are much shorter and cam be completed over a weekend.
Why is everything a crisis now? The crying of wolf gets tiresome and it makes it easy to tune out, probably to the detriment of local newspapers.
Oops, replied to the wrong article.
https://www.axios.com/2022/07/04/local-newspapers-news-deser...
The day of the train wreck will live on in Mendon for generations, I'm sure. There will be kids and grand-kids telling this story in 50 years.
Unrelated, but it did make me think of 9/11 and “The Man in the Red Bandana”:
The opening question sets the stage for the context:
“What would you do, in the last hour of your life?”
I love humans even with all of our negatives. Everyone has the potential to “rise to the occasion” in their own way big or small.
Happy 4th of July to my US HN friends!
Has the author ever been to a Sonic Drive-In or was there a Liebherr T 282B in Mendon Missouri?
It was probably a bit "whiny," but it was not incorrect.
I do feel that publicizing examples of generosity of spirit would help in healing our nation, but he's right, in that it doesn't sell papers.
Man bites dog is news. Dog bites man isn't. Sorry to be cold and unaffectionate (I love the story though) but I believe it happens regulary. Big town, small town, there's good people everywhere.
It's not like FB or twitter doesn't have the resource and skill to A/B test that - but I'm pretty sure their biased by the 19th century tradition of "sex sells, and we only have one frontpage".
I become increasingly convinced that a significant part of our deficiency in reporting is that we've conflated "news" with "current affairs" long enough that we've forgotten that both are actually worthy of mental bandwidth.
The author took pains to assert that it wasn't exceptional:
>> And the most unusual thing about all this is: None of this is unusual
>> believe me, they happen. Every day. Every hour. Ordinary Americans will astound you with their goodwill
> was ignored by the press
Well, they're right in that I didn't hear anything about this specific train derailment, but heart-warming human interest stories are a pretty regular staple of even the national press.
> I do feel that publicizing examples of generosity of spirit would help in healing our nation
I'm not so sure. Our nation isn't breaking apart because we can't pull together in a crisis, it's breaking apart because we can't stand together outside of a crisis. Americans want very different things, and pulling together in a crisis only helps when we're in crisis mode.
The world _is_ in crisis mode.
Unfortunately, some people have a vested interest in looking at the train crash, and not helping, and maybe even preventing people from helping.
(I can't help but picture the "train-crash denier" next to the boy scout, explaning that the train did not crash, it's all a scam from you-know-who to restrict your liberties or serve the car industry, wake up sheeple, etc...)
IMO, there's good in this situation, because inferring a nebulous right to privacy that didn't do very much was always a little questionable thing for the supreme court to do. It was a "good enough" measure that prevented us from doing any better.
Yes, it's terrible that poor women in red states will have to pay the price.
But ultimately, we're going to have to figure out how to define a right to privacy and make it into real law. And we can maybe fix other things, like security/privacy in our papers and effects and not rely upon 19th century judicial compromises on policing power and searches, too.
> There's a political crisis going on with neo-nazi influence in and around the Republican party that's not being dealt with at all
Honestly, the Republican party is <<slowly>> making itself less relevant. Which is kind of bad-- a relevant and not-crazy political opposition is a useful thing to a society.
This is the second last line of the piece, where the author explicitly makes that claim:
>> Although we rarely hear about such acts of compassion and lovingkindness within our society, believe me, they happen. Every day. Every hour. Ordinary Americans will astound you with their goodwill. Sadly, ordinary American journalists aren’t interested in being astounded by such things.
Maybe that's not what they're trying to get across—if not, I'd like to hear what you think it is—but I like how you jump to "acting in bad faith".
I think your responses affirm my read.
Much like a passenger train barreling full speed into a dump truck, you made one severe mistake at the beginning and rode it head first into a spectacular disaster.
Also want to second @mcphage