The base model aluminium Intel Mac Minis started out with 2GB RAM, then 4 GB and finally 8 GB - all over a span of 8 years. Many of these models would be useless today if you couldn't upgrade the RAM at all. In fact, the 2014 Mac Mini models with soldered RAM (LPDDR) received a very poor reception and Apple was forced to backtrack and go back to user-replaceable RAM with the next Mac Minis ( https://everymac.com/systems/apple/mac_mini/mac-mini-aluminu... ).
Many of the early adopters of Apple Silicon M1 devices noticed heavy usage of their SSD, which many attributed to heavy swapping due to the limited (non-upgradable) RAM in the M1 devices. Apple finally said it was a bug ( https://appleinsider.com/articles/21/06/04/apple-resolves-m1... ) and recommended upgrading macOS. But many of these early adopters are less than satisfied and still spend a lot of anxious time worrying whether their soldered SSD's life has reduced by a year or two because of the increased usage. Their concerns are real because with soldered SSDs, you obviously have to do a very, very costly repair through Apple if the soldered SSD chips conk out.
Imagine if you have to replace your whole CPU / SoC to upgrade just your RAM because the RAM is now integrated with the CPU / SoC!? (This is ignoring that even CPUs are now unnecessarily being soldered in many Apple and non-Apple desktops and not easily upgradeable ...).
At some point, the cost-benefit analysis of such soldered / integrated parts doesn't work out in favour of us consumers. And that's what we need to consider before blindly giving up ease of repair for some brief performance increase. (While I have specifically highlighted Apple because they are the only one currently using integrated RAM with their CPU / SoCs, my criticism is directed at the others too, including Dell, HP, Lenovo etc. who are following the same path of planned obsolescence by soldering components to make them less repairable and reduce their life. Unless we start supporting repairability - like with https://frame.work/ devices - we consumers are in a very slippery slope of losing our right to own and repair our devices).