Connecting with iTunes is actually no longer required for iOS devices starting with iOS 5.
You can also add PDFs to iBooks on the device without iTunes -- not sure about epub files though.
You can also add PDFs to iBooks on the device without iTunes -- not sure about epub files though.
I've never been able to get large pdf's onto my ipod without itunes. Can't email them because they're too big, and the ipod cannot browse local shared directories.