when your position robs people of their bodily autonomy you're not necessarily a bad person, but you have a bad and morally indefensible position and that's "the problem" people.
Ah right, "morally indefensible". Except that people do defend it from a moral standpoint. Maybe not your moral standpoint, but a moral standpoint nonetheless. The fact that you are so blind as to be able to even see the other side of the issue just reaffirms my statement that you are the problem