What I will tell you is a thing that I have read, and I hold close:
Forgive one another, and you will be forgiven.
In order to forgive, we must have the truth. Without it, we are in a fog of blind judgement and accusation.
Clarity of the source of this misfortune allows us to forgive.
I cannot say that I hold the full pantheon of the origin of these words to be true, but the four books that imparted this teaching to me have left an indelible imprint, and I cannot escape their mercy, justice, and hope.
I have read many other books, of course, and I believe in compassion. Though great calamity has befallen us, we might find any who have acted wrongly to be worthy of forgiveness.
When we grow beyond apprehension of recrimination, blind to fear of punishment for a cataclysm caused by ourselves and others, and only seek to salve our unwilling harm, perhaps then we will be able to say "move!" to a mountain, and it will move.
Yes, I have loved these books. Sometimes, they are my only solace.