The harsh reality is that around 30% of men are completely unfuckable. They only got action because women needed to be married because they couldn’t support themselves. Ugly men have 0 value in the dating market beyond money.
Even in like 2000s when this trend started? I was a kid so maybe it was harder for women then but really?
There are lots of ugly women too, who are they going to date?
Nobody. They all have casual sex with the same 20% of guys then cry when they can’t make him commit