Maybe what they are asking is how someone making an average of 115k, who is also in healthcare doesn’t have better health coverage and still decides to have a kid.
So it raises the question of what kind of shitty coverage she had that was able to do this, or if she just had no coverage at all for some reason, which as far I understand, is supposed to be illegal after PPACA (you can always buy from the exchanges and they can't say no).
That's a provider choice, and not guaranteed.
So when you see things like a $14,000 charge for someone consulting over video for 10 minutes of work, or $800 for a bandaid, and you wonder how the hell a charge can possibly be that high, the answer is often that it isn't. That's just an artifact of this blind bidding thing going on between providers and insurers where providers send the largest conceivable bill they can to insurers knowing damn well they won't actually get that much.
This also feeds back into why insurance companies have such a horrible incentive to default deny everything. They know the providers are overcharging and charging for bullshit. Both sides are forced into taking equally extreme baseline negotiating positions by the total lack of pricing transparency.
It points at a very specific dysfunction of our system that goes well beyond the question of whether the government or private insurance purchasers should bear the bulk of the cost. This is a totally separate and orthogonal problem that both buyer and seller, no matter who they are, treat all transactions, no matter how mundane, like it's a blind silent auction for a rare Vermeer that hasn't seen a public market in 300 years.
And you're going onto a tangent that I am very much in agreement with (that the whole system is massively broken and suffers all sorts of perverse incentives), but -my- point, if you'll recall, is that not everything gets written off. People still get unexpected medical bills -all the time-, for things their insurance didn't fully cover; this despite their deductible and/or max out of pocket.
Or, as I commented before, and which you're...agreeing to, in a whole lot of words, it's a provider choice, and not guaranteed. I.e., every time you go to the doc you're rolling the die; doubly so for emergency stuff that you can't get pre-authorized. "It doesn't happen -that- often" seems to maybe be your argument, but it happens enough, and the consequences of it happening at all are devastating.
At 38k a year I had a max out of pocket of 7k. It can be done.
It’s as if I opened a web server in my home with all the ports open, a password that is “changeme” and then complained that someone else should’ve been protecting me.