> I went to my parent's house the other day and the TV was on. I had to turn it off so we could have a normal conversation like normal people do. The TV was constantly pulling our attention on some stupid crap like ads or some garbage program that tries to polarize people.
It's like that at my (Boomer) parents' house too: If it wasn't for me consciously and constantly (re-)turning it off, the TV would be blaring during all waking hours--sometimes two TVs in two different rooms, working our anxiety up with two different BREAKING NEWS updates simultaneously!
But before I get all high and mighty, I look at my own generation which has their smartphones dinging and buzzing at them constantly, feeding them that same steady drip. I remember pre-COVID sitting at a restaurant and watching this couple that seemed to be on a date, except their phones were vibrating and dinging every 5 seconds, interrupting whatever it was they were talking about, and they just couldn't ignore them. They couldn't just let their minds be at peace and relax, as you put it. They ended up not even talking to each other--just constantly checking and swiping, then checking again, then tapping, then swiping, then checking, then swiping, then checking and checking again OMG it must be exhausting! Like the Las Vegas Strip in your brain for hours straight!