Or else what? you'll be sending the gender cops my way? ;-)

I don't have the time or energy to search for everyone's favorite pronoun before talking about them. If it's someone I personally know or talk to on a regular basis, then I will certainly use their preferred pronoun out of habit. But I expect people to accept that some people just care less about their pronouns than they do. I know this is a hard to grasp concept in this day and age...

I don't want people to call me "buddy" or "bro" but I accept it when they call me like that because I respect their choice