Ask HN: Importance af attraction for long-term relationship?

3 pointsvkurjsnnw1 comment

I'm dating my best friend. We have amazing fun together, but I don't find her that attractive. I often catch myself looking at other women, which feels like a bad sign for a healthy long-term relationship with her. On the other hand, I don't think I could find anyone who I'd enjoy everyday life as much with.

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She doesn't think you're that hot either.

Doesn't even catch herself when looking at other men who are heartthrobs while you are not considered in their league.

You'll just have to work it out in your own unique way.

The closer the friendship the more likely for an amicable outcome.

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