To tie it to something concrete, just about everyone thinks C++ template metaprogramming is unreasonably difficult to reason about even aside from the syntax, but it exists to be extremely powerful at precisely expressing behavioral contracts of a software component that are difficult to do in other languages. Even then, it barely scratches the surface of what would be useful to express for the interaction of those components to be "simple". The number of design parameters of a component that really matter in various contexts are astronomical. No one can deal with reasoning about that many component traits in practice, so the software engineers simply hide most of them -- the complexity is still there and will manifest in unexpected ways because it is not visible at the interface.
All systems engineering is complex for this reason. Any non-trivial software system has to be reasoned about as a monolith at some level to correctly address complexity, which creates an unavoidable cognitive load. This isn't a software engineering problem, it is a systems-thinking problem. In chemical engineering, for example, there are often complex system design problems that cannot be adequately addressed by decomposing them into a sequence of sub-problems, all that does is hide major complexity at the interface of the sub-problems.