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both are used, as this [1] points out, the "estar" vs "ser" depends on what aspect you want to highlight. "estoy casado" highlights the fact that you weren't before, and "soy casado" highlights the fact that you are now.

[1] https://www.spanishdict.com/answers/229597/soy-casado-o-esto...

I think is just as common to 'ser casado' as it is to 'estar casado' depends on who you ask

I guess it isn't, because it's just a transitory state until you "eres (ser) viudo"? :-p