But! This actually makes me more interested in EA, because the criticism only really chips away small caveats in the idea it presents. It points out some inconsistency in the central principle, but a lot of things are still worth doing while having some unclear edge-cases that seem inconsistent.
I think it's also easy to reject the dichotomy between "EA says you should sacrifice everything in the embrace of extreme utilitarianism" and "EA is just generic try-to-do-some-good-ism that brings nothing new".
I just started reading the 80000 hours website. Their argument against the former seems to be that your continued career and income is your most important asset (unless you inherited a fortune), and not being miserable or depressed STRONGLY supports building a sustained income and career, and continuing to give.
So you should allow yourself to eat ice cream sometimes not just because it's intuitively obviously okay, also because it supports your mental health, which is a continued asset that increases your capacity to keep giving.
If you burn out and start giving less or stop, obviously that's not effective altruism, and I think the 80000 hour website and EA more broadly must be very aware of that.
(The other side of the dichotomy seems even easier to rebuke. It's just overly reductive for the sake of making a point.)
Overall this is a great article that has ruined my weekend by giving me way too many other interesting web pages to read :)