> The web has turned in to this massive mess where most of us don't have the ability to do anything without having to rely on some ban happy mega corp.
That's absolutely not true. You're drinking the HN/startup koolaid if you think everything should be on CloudFlare/AWS/Google/Microsoft/etc and there's no other way. Obviously VCs would love for you to think that but it doesn't make it true.
Domain registrars are plentiful. Dedicated server providers are plentiful. Hell, "shared hosting" is still a thing and may be perfectly appropriate if all you need is a static site.
Pick a mid-sized company whose objective is to deliver great service rather than one whose objective is either "growth and engagement" or to monopolize the internet. Ideally pick one within your jurisdiction so that you have more recourse if things go wrong.