I've tried them all: roam research, obsidian, logseq, the Archive, org-roam etc. etc. None of them worked for me until I moved from digital to analog with pen and index cards.
What problem were you trying to solve with your search for something digital when the solution turned out to be physical?
Studying, reading, writing
Yeah, if you're having trouble doing any of those things in front of computer, I'm not sure if the choice of software would help in any way. Some people are just wired to do things via non-digital ways :) Glad you found your solution.