> In reality both doors are equally likely to be correct, no?
No, your original pick will always have a 1/3 chance of being correct. The door that gets opened will always have a 0/3 chance of being correct. The last door has to get all of the rest of the chance.
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edit: I haven't tried explaining it this way before, but instead of one winning door and two bad doors, there's one door with a brand new car, one door with a giant mousetrap, and one door with a stuffed toy dinosaur. These are the ways it can go.
A) You pick the door with the car. Monty either picks the dinosaur or the mousetrap, he doesn't really care. If you switch, you get the dinosaur or the mousetrap.
B) You pick the door with the dinosaur. Monty is forced to pick the mousetrap. If you switch, you win the car.
C) You pick the door with the mousetrap. Monty is forced to pick the dinosaur. If you switch, you win the car.
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edit 2: your intuition is actually comparing this problem to other problems and not seeing the difference. Take the above scenario for example, but change it so Monty always reveals the dinosaur, no matter what.
A) You pick the door with the car. Monty picks the dinosaur. If you switch, you get the mousetrap.
B) You pick the door with the dinosaur. Monty picks the same door, and shows you that it is the dinosaur. Now you will definitely switch, and have an even chance to win the mousetrap or the car.
C) You pick the door with the mousetrap. Monty picks the door with the dinosaur. If you switch, you will win the car.
That's your 50/50.