I don't think there is a status quo. There is choice between autopep8, yapf (which itself supports 4 different styles), black, and maybe some more I'm missing. With languages that have a built in formatter this isn't an issue.
I can’t imagine ever picking a language based on this feature and seems weird to even mention it.
This has never caused me a minute of headache and the only time I care is when conflicting styles are used in the same file.
I always thought it was kind of dumb of Go to care about this but don’t care enough to affect my language choice. I don’t use Go but am open if it’s a fit for a project.
I like that Python has that variability and let’s developer make decisions as they see fit.
I don’t want to talk to people about tabs and spaces unless we’re already friends and having a few beers.