> I do not, it is how you gauge if something has been tried and tested in production
FAANG size company can use in production much less mature software than most small companies. If they want to use X they don't need to wait when X will be mature - they can make it so for the use cases they have (which may differ from the use-cases you have). They can hire an X expert or dedicate a few engineers who will learn X and become X experts. Even if they will encounter a problem in production (not every bug can be prevented by pre-prod testing) these engineers will debug and fix it and with the help of CI/CD pipeline the fix will be in production in a few hours or days at most.
What would a smallish company do in a similar case - report a bug to developers and hope it will be fixed and the fix will be included in the next release which will arrive as an OS package / Docker image several months later.