Ooh do any of these still exist? If you know of any I'd love the links to look at how they're doing.
I was an inveterate tagger, debating taxonomies and ontologies late into the night (I have now forgotten the difference between the two!) and tried to run a curated forum. Eventually I gave up for most of the reasons you highlight - but mainly because I realised no one was as OCD about classification as I was.
In another life I would have run and catalogued a university library.