Lots of jobs are just shitty.
Not sure if it's still the case but when I worked at Reddit we had "unlimited" PTO and I saw quite a few people taking over 6 weeks off per year.
If you want to see an extreme work culture maybe look at China or Japan, but as far as tech goes the US ain't bad these days.
Google's not super exceptional in this matter (that's mostly their pay/on-site experience). I have 4 weeks (20 days) at the moment, and have for a few years, along with 8 paid holidays (28 days total). Next year I get a fifth week (33 days with holidays). I don't work at a FAANG/MANGA company, but just some random company in the Mid-West.
But I've also worked service jobs before with 0 paid days. Holidays were mandatory work days because everyone who did have decent jobs were off and wanted to eat at a restaurant. The talk about the bottom in the US being below elsewhere isn't a myth. The US doesn't like putting floors on matters this side of the 60s.
Parental leave is usually not. Parental leaves start rather high (100% or 90%) and then go slowly down (to 60% or 50%)
I haven’t seen a job posting or working at a company with only 2 weeks of PTO since I was a junior, but they’re out there.