It is 100% hate speech to call all LGBTQ people groomers, to imply ones sexuality is because they were groomed.
It's hateful and a disingenuous political argument to use that cast that term on anyone who objects to DeSantis' banning of discussions of LGBTQ topics. Which is why we are discussing this.
Not knowing that is triggering is gross.
If you have certain distasteful beliefs, at least have the respect not to say it in public.
It's the same as racial epithets.