Sfp isn't copper vs fiber. It's just the standard for a modular plug on network hardware.
They have 25gbe twinax SFP28s that, as far as I'm aware, have essentially identical performance specs to using optical SFP28s with fiber. The fiber is thinner and can go further, but it also is more fragile and limited on bends. Latency is almost entirely driven by the switch and the NIC.
Photons in fiber do not move meaningfully faster than signals in copper, and speed of light in short datacenters runs is not the limiting factor In latency. Any meaningful processing will happen in electronics and converting from copper to fiber introduces more latency.
There's a good paper on it here: https://www.commscope.com/globalassets/digizuite/2799-latenc...
Tldr coax actually is faster (0.77c) than optical fiber (0.67c).